Hi Ms. Wai, I’m a young female western woman currently teaching in China. I came in with no teaching experience,
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Dear Ms. Wai – He said/She said
Hi Ms Wai, I recently went to China to visit a paleontological institute there. As a student I met other
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai- Valentine’s Day Overshadowed
Dear Ms. Wai, I know this is a stupid problem, but it’s bothering me and I was wondering if you
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai — Is He Into Me?
Dear Ms. Wai, I recently started dating this 22year old Chinese man. We have been on two dates so
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai — Too Fast and Too Slow
Dear Ms. Wai, I’m a Canadian in a fairly new relationship with a Chinese guy. I’m 31 and he’s 37.
Continue readingSense of Place in a WWAM Relationship
Many years ago I moved to Hong Kong to study. I met a Chinese student and married him six months
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai – Making the First Move
I’ve read your past columns about girls needing to be more brave and making the first move. I’m okay with
Continue readingWhen is the right time to let your child travel to Asia on his own?
When I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
Continue readingBook Giveaway! “Instructions for Chinese Women and Girls” by Ban Zhao
When I was writing my memoir, Good Chinese Wife, my agent asked me to find some tongue-in-cheek quotes to add
Continue readingMongolia: The Land of Manly Men?
“OohhhH!,” said the two young female Mongolian teachers, in stereo, as we walked across the parking lot towards the elementary school
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