When I moved to Beijing back in 2003, I was a university student with little money but ready for adventure.
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In the Eye of the Beholder: The Pressure to be the Same
Last week I saw my friend Li after our kids got out of school for the day. Li knows more
Continue readingCelebrating Chinese New Year in a Bygone Era
Have you ever lost a meaning in translation because you didn’t quite understand another culture? That happened to me the
Continue reading#MeToo in Greater China
The first time I felt trapped was in a service elevator in a Washington, DC YMCA. I was 22 and
Continue readingSense of Place in a WWAM Relationship
Many years ago I moved to Hong Kong to study. I met a Chinese student and married him six months
Continue readingWhen is the right time to let your child travel to Asia on his own?
When I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
Continue readingMongolia: The Land of Manly Men?
“OohhhH!,” said the two young female Mongolian teachers, in stereo, as we walked across the parking lot towards the elementary school
Continue readingHow Living in Hong Kong Turned Me into a Feminist
It wasn’t like I hadn’t grown up in a feminist household. My mom and her only sister had gone to
Continue readingHow 4 Western Women Experience Birth with their Chinese Husbands
Pregnancy, childbirth and recovery is no easy feat, but WWAM couples must factor in cultural differences and attitudes toward pregnancy,
Continue readingFive Tips for Raising Kids After A WWAM Break-Up
We all go into relationships hoping for the best. More times than not we just assume our happily ever after is
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