I’ve heard both horror stories and tales of misunderstandings between Chinese mother-in-laws and their foreign daughter-in-laws. While misunderstandings between us
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My Mother-In-Law is Chinese—I Am Untouchable
If I tell you that my mother-in-law is Chinese, it probably does not ring any bell to the ears of
Continue readingEmbracing Nature on a Daily Basis: A Love for the Outdoors
Nature has never been of an utmost importance in my life. Being outdoors lacks appeal to me; could be due
Continue readingIndependence In A Chinese Family: A Different Outlook On Living
When my husband and I had first gotten married, we were happy for the independence that came. We had both
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai – Money Problems
Dear Ms. Wai, I’ve been dating my Chinese boyfriend for two years and things are going great. We are planning
Continue readingRewriting the Rules of Confinement
It’s hard to believe that 20 years ago I delivered my first child–and learned about 滿月 or 坐月子 as I
Continue readingThree Fights I’ve Had With My Chinese In-Laws After Having Kids
I have the best parents-in-law. They are generous, patient, warm, and truly treat me like their own daughter. Save for
Continue readingWhere’s Wang: Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries & WWAM Affair
Murder mysteries. The Roaring 20s. Australia. A WWAM affair. The list of reasons why you should really be watching Miss
Continue readingWhen is the right time to let your child travel to Asia on his own?
When I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
Continue readingAbout my mother-in-law and my placenta
In the last month of my pregnancy, the topic of what to do with my placenta after giving birth came
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