It was New Years Eve in 2012, and I was thinking of how my personal life had changed in the
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Western Women & Asian Men, Breaking All Molds
It was New Years Eve in 2012, and I was thinking of how my personal life had changed in the
Continue readingWhen I had first met my husband, I knew that sharing our cultural traditions would be memorable. We came from
Continue readingUpon marrying my Chinese husband in 2014, I knew that eventually, we would have children of our own. One thing
Continue readingMarrying a Chinese man comes with a host of benefits; such as gaining a respectable and ambitious partner, along with
Continue readingIt’s hard to believe that 20 years ago I delivered my first child–and learned about 滿月 or 坐月子 as I
Continue readingLast week I saw my friend Li after our kids got out of school for the day. Li knows more
Continue readingMany years ago I moved to Hong Kong to study. I met a Chinese student and married him six months
Continue readingWhen I divorced my first husband 17 years ago, the last thing I wanted was to let our two-year-old son
Continue readingDear Ms. Wai, I am lucky to be with a Chinese man. We live in New Zealand and we are
Continue readingWhen I was writing my memoir, Good Chinese Wife, my agent asked me to find some tongue-in-cheek quotes to add
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